Aimee Fenech·Jan 17Member-onlyHow an involuntary stress reaction could provoke someone into violenceI don’t remember when exactly I became aware of it but I have a few memories where my physical safety was at risk because of it. When I am in distress I smile involuntarily. As a child I lived in a high stress environment, I was not able to defend…Safety3 min readSafety3 min read
Aimee Fenech·Sep 22, 2022Member-onlyThings I learned during lunch…Disclaimer: Not all my lunch breaks are productive, indeed most days I just take the time to take care of myself or walk outside instead! Amaranth An edible wed which grows at will on the land could by a good cash crop… “While amaranth leaves can be sautéed or cooked into…Learn2 min readLearn2 min read
Aimee Fenech·Sep 12, 2022Member-onlyWeird and wonderful things about TotnesAs I travel from Southern Spain to Oxford in the UK for a permaculture festival I find myself stopping for a couple of days in Totnes. …Totnes4 min readTotnes4 min read
Aimee Fenech·Jul 7, 2022Member-onlyMalta’s Jane's — the underground abortion stories no one talks aboutSome years ago I got a phone call from a friend on a summer evening, she wanted to come over and talk to me and wouldn’t tell me what the matter was. I was worried and agreed to meet her straight away. We stood outside the house because the conversation…Abortion2 min readAbortion2 min read
Aimee FenechinModern Women·May 30, 2022Member-onlyToxic Positivity & Manifestation CultureA white able-bodied European woman posts a picture of a large swimming pool in Mauritius, the sun is shining and the sky is blue and the woman is obviously posting high on the delusion that the universe has magically manifested this from her positive thoughts. …Modern Women2 min readModern Women2 min read
Aimee FenechinThe Memoirist·Apr 14, 2022Member-onlyLiving with Severe Lactose IntoleranceIt’s not great! — Lactose Intolerant1 min readLactose Intolerant1 min read
Aimee FenechinThe Memoirist·Apr 4, 2022Member-onlyMariannaAt the end of 2021, Marianna died. As she was laid to rest, I walked around the almond grove far away across the Mediterranean, grieving…Life1 min readLife1 min read
Aimee Fenech·Aug 21, 2021The art of self sabotageAs I sit here to write this article it is 14:00 on a Saturday, half the day is gone already and I have managed to accomplish all the basics to stay alive — mainly brunch, water and now ice-cream, I paid my house internet bill which I had been putting…Personal5 min readPersonal5 min read
Aimee FenechinThe Memoirist·Feb 2, 2022Member-onlyThe Bad and the Ugly on the Dating SceneTrigger warning — this story includes a recollection of events including violence, sexual harassment and sexual assault — Dating adventures from a 30 something year old… Some years ago I was coming out of a long term relationship which lasted through most of my twenties and spanned across three countries. …Life7 min readLife7 min read
Aimee FenechinModern Women·Feb 5, 2022Member-onlyThe Wisdom I Wish Others Knew: To Be A Good Liar You Have To Have An Even Better MemoryI have noticed a pattern recently with random people I know suggesting I should lie; mind you, nothing major. …Self2 min readSelf2 min read